Happiness
The Prayer
The Prayer – performed by Josh Groban and Celine Dion
A beautiful piece of music performed by two amazing artists!
Are you a good person?
You're a good person when:
- You're authentic. Be true to yourself. If you aren’t being yourself, you aren’t truly living – you’re merely existing. And ask yourself this: If you don’t like who you really are, why should should others like you?
- Care about people. When you don’t genuinely care about people, it is perceived and people won’t care about you. The more you help others, the more they will want to help you. The more you care for others, the more others will care for you.
- Make others feel good. People will rarely remember what you did, but they will always remember how you made them feel.
- Take ownership of your actions. Be honest! Nobody likes a liar. The truth always reveals itself.
- Make a point of smiling. Do this often. When you smile, even a stranger seeing your smile will smile. Everyone likes the sight of a genuine smile.
- Respect people – your elders, minors, everyone. Treat everyone with the same level of respect you would like to receive and the same level of patience you would have with your baby brother. People respond to respect.
- Address people by their name. People like the to be addressed by their name. Make an effort to learn and remember the names of those you meet.
- Use the magic words “Please” and “Thank you.” These two simple phrases can make demands seem like requests – they impart a friendly tone into serious conversations. Using please and thank you can mean the difference between sounding rude and sounding genuinely grateful.
- Help others when you can. When you make a positive impact in someone else’s life, you also positively impact your own life. Do that makes someone else happy.
- Deliver more than you promise. Some people consistently promise things and don't fulfill their promises. Or they promise perfection and deliver
- mediocrity. Boost your personal value and do the exact opposite. uUnder-sell your capabilities so that you’re always able to over-deliver. You will be perceived as going above and beyond.
- Get organized. Make a regular habit of organizing your living space and working space. For some practical organizational guidance, read David Allen’s Getting Things Done.
- Do your research and ask specific questions. If something still doesn’t make sense to you, ask questions. The people involved will respect your desire to understand.
- Share information with others. If you have access to essential information, don’t keep it to yourself, share it.
- Stay positive and focus on what’s right. Things that happens in life aren't good or bad. Your perspective is what's important. No matter
- how things turn out, look for the good in it. Stay positive. Learn from the negative and appreciate the positive outcomes.
- Listen intently to what others have to say. Listen and learn. Listening to others is always appreciated.
- Appreciate and love Mother Nature. Beauty surrounds us. Take notice. Those who truly appreciate the little things typically exhibit the same high
- regard for all humanity.
- Invest time, energy and money in yourself every day. You are the product of what you know. The more time, energy and money you spend acquiring pertinent knowledge, the more control you have over your life and the more valuable you will be to everyone around you. Always look for fresh ideas on self improvement.
- Perform random acts of kindness. Help someone take groceries to their car or buy someone a coffee Starbucks. Surprise someone by doing the unexpected.
- Compliment people who deserve it. Everybody likes to hear that their efforts are appreciated.
- Speak clearly and make eye contact. These two things equate create trust and convey sincerity.
- Be available and approachable. When people feel you aren't approachable, they tend to forget about you.
- Be self-sufficient. Don't rely on others. The more self-sufficient you are, the freeer you become.
A list of ways to ensure unhappiness
Observe people and you'll find that some people always seem to be unhappy. Instead of looking at the wonderful life they have, they always are unhappy. Happiness is a state of mind. We control our happiness, it isn't something we are born with. We earn it (or don't) daily.
With that in mind, below is a list of things that will ensure unhappiness. Work to achieve the opposite!
- Dwell on things that happened in the past.
- Don’t let anyone help you.
- Quit when the going gets tough.
- Always be suspicious and never trust anyone.
- Never take responsibility for your own actions – blame someone else
- Keep doing the same thing over and over again.
- Take the path of least resistance.
- Never learn anything new
- Never ask for directions
- Never ask questions.
- Complain about your problems instead of taking the necessary steps to resolve them.
- Fear and resist change.
- Focus on what you don’t want to happen.
- Fear the things you don’t fully understand.
- Hang out with people who belittle you and belittle yourself.
- Set lofty goals for yourself and never do anything to achieve them.
- Don’t help others unless you have to.
- Do only the things that benefit you directly.
- Hang out with people who complain about everything.
- Let others make decisions for you.
- Remember the insults and forget the compliments.
- Let everything bottle up inside.
- Rely on others for everything.
- Forget to plan.
- Never dream.
- Don’t think about the future at all.
- Always disregard other people’s opinions and suggestions.
- Make promises you can’t keep.
- Never decide on anything, ever.
- Just keep going and going and going. And never ever stop.
- Never say, “I’m sorry.” Never say, “I love you.
- Lie to yourself and those around you.
- Hold onto anger. Never forgive anyone.
- Let your close relationships go.
- Never finish what you start.
- Take everything personally.

